Timeline 17-DONE

A few days before I was coming home I saw a picture of Dick’s son on the girls Instagram that I had questioned him about. I was pissed! I sent him three emails and he didn’t answer. He’s always on his phone, so I knew he was getting them. I messaged his ex-wife asking if she had their son or if he did. In the picture his son had a mask on, so I didn’t want to accuse him without being 100% sure. His ex-wife got upset and didn’t think it was any of my business who was caring for their child. I can understand where she’s coming from. Dick had been lying to her telling her that he and I weren’t together and that he was hanging out with his “new friend.” He still hadn’t answered me, so I messaged him off of my mom’s Facebook pretending to be her. I said, “If you have a new girlfriend just let Karlee know.” He responded, “I don’t. I told her that already. I saw she messaged me, so I will message her right now.” He still didn’t get back to me, so I called him three times off of my mom’s Facebook. He didn’t answer, but then called me right back. I said, “What is up with this picture. You told me you weren’t talking to her and nothing was going on.” He screamed, “Nothing’s going on. I still love you. I’m trying to give my son a good Halloween and he’s friends with her daughter, so we went to a Halloween party with her. That’s it. We can figure everything out you get home.” I replied, “You’re lying to me. You’re telling me you love me, but you’re hanging out with another girl. I’m done.” He replied, “Fine, that’s your choice” and he hung up. I sent him one more email saying the same thing again and he didn’t respond. That’s when I decided to call it quits for good! He wanted to play around with his new girlfriend, but hold me on by a string like a puppet. It was just like when we cheated on me the first time! He was getting angry and mean because we were technically “dating,” but we were together and I had caught him in a lie once again! I had enough.

At this point I was still in Belize. I had been crying for two days straight and I just wanted to go home. I knew I wanted to be done with him, but at the same time I knew that I was still easily manipulated and I would have gone back as soon as he reached out to me. On October 28th I shared my brief story on Facebook. After 2.5 years I had finally made the decision to leave for good. He was not happy that I had outed him! Dick ended up emailing me as soon as I posted the basis of my story. The email said, “Great post…hope ya feel better.” I replied, “I’m sorry if you don’t like that I posted about our life and our relationship. I shared only the truth and hope it can help someone else. You took the time we were taking to figure ourselves out and our relationship and to get help to start hanging out with another girl and lie to me. You have no right any longer to talk to me, discuss with me or yell at me. I have let you go. You have no power. Any power you had I just took back.” He replied back, “Sounds good…keep being a victim!” He sent another right after that which said, “Power….wtf, you really are a psycho.” I replied back, “Like I said, you have no right talking to me anymore. “Your ex had to come out of hiding” “The new girl is your new friend” Both examples of how shitty you have been to me and 100% how accurate I have been! I ask you kindly to leave me alone!” He didn’t respond.

When I posted my story he had to try and back up his abuse with writing a post. His ex-girlfriend had commented on it telling him that she told him to get rid of toxic people and she could come out of hiding. About two weeks prior to everything happening I had noticed that his ex-had blocked me on Facebook. When I asked him why he told me he has no idea he doesn’t talk to her, so it all seemed like another great big lie. I had messaged his new girlfriend prior to everything asking her if she was talking to my boyfriend, but no reply. His lies were just piling up at this point! This was the end of the line for me; I was done with his bullshit! I haven’t talked to him once, but that doesn’t mean he hasn’t continued to try and manipulate me.

That was the basic timeline of my abusive relationship. I will get more in depth about the abuse as we get further into the blog! I obviously didn’t share every single detail throughout the 2.5 years, as I don’t remember everything. If you get the timeline that it was extremely rough starting after the first month, than you will have a better understanding of what’s to come.

Belize