BE TRUE TO YOURSELF

I never imagined having this many people read my blog I kind of figured just abuse survivors would, so thank you! I have had a lot of people say to me, “you’re so strong to post that,” but I don’t think it has so much to do with strength. I believe we all have a powerful voice, we just have to find it. I think we have to realize that we are worthy and confident enough to share our stories and stand up for what we believe in. I still get anxiety thinking “what if this person gets mad” or “what happens when he starts making up lies about me?” That’s a natural human reaction. The thing is, we are the only ones that know our stories. If you want to share your story then go ahead and share it and don’t look back! We have to look past what people say because no matter what, people are going to judge. Be true to yourself and others. You’re the only one that knows what you’ve endured. Like I’ve said before, it can be embarrassing to tell people what I’ve gone through and what I have done. I can’t go back and change things though. I can only move on, heal, and ask for forgiveness. I believe that because I’m not afraid to share and because God answered my prayers that I should be standing up and encouraging those that are also going through it. I learned at my life coach that I have to work on becoming more confident and independent. I am more confident now and I’m not afraid to have a voice of my own! We all have a voice, we just have to find it. Just remember to be true to yourself and to OTHERS! I’ve taken myself to dinner and the movies. I’ve slept alone in my house and I keep doing things to make myself more confident and independent. It takes time, but you can do it. I’m no where close to being where I want to be, but I’m making progress and that’s all that matters! Ps: I know a lot of people trying to leave their abusive relationships, but feel stuck. If I can do it, anyone can! Do tons of research on abusive and narcissistic relationship and you will figure out ways to break free! Have confidence in yourself! You are worthy of a healthy, loving, and empathetic relationship!

Swimming with sharks!