Timeline 8-Dinner Terror

Dick and I had still been fighting a lot, but around the end of March, end of April of 2017, after our trip to Disney he asked to take me to dinner at Tuscan in Lake Geneva. I agreed, so he came and picked me up from my house. In the car on the way there we started arguing about something. I think he was mad because I was still angry with him about something he never apologized for, I can’t remember for sure. He started getting all pissed off telling me that we couldn’t even be with each other for a few minutes before fighting. He said he didn’t even know why we were going to dinner, yet he had asked me. We were just about to get on the freeway from Elkhorn to Lake Geneva. I said, “I don’t care just take me home.” He didn’t want to take me home he just wanted to bitch. We got to Tuscan and he was still crabby. I told him to let it go that it wasn’t that big of a deal. He just kept bitching. We went out to dinner a lot, Tuscan, Café Calamari, Chop House, Oakfire. Neither of us drank, so eating out was our thing, and this was normally how our dates went. This time was worse though, we were sitting at the booth closest to the stairs as you walk into the seating area. He was saying rude things, but I was just letting them go. As soon as our food got to the table though he said to me, “I should have cheated on you.” I looked up from my food and looked him straight in the eyes and said, “What did you just say?” He repeated what he said. Little did I know he had already cheated on me, but I hadn’t found out yet. I pushed my food away, got up, and walked out of the restaurant.

I walked to the end of the road, so I was kitty corner to Kilwin’s ice cream. I Called Arthur crying and told him what happened. He told me he would pick come me up and take me home, but I said no that’s ok. I didn’t want to upset Dick more. I called my best friend Elsa and told her what happened. She said “Justin and I are coming to get you, we will be right there.” They were coming from Elkhorn, so while I was waiting for them Dick came and found me. He parked his car in front of the jewelry store and got out screaming. He told me to get the fuck in the car that we were going the fuck home. I told him no that Elsa was coming to get me and walked to the other side of the street in front of Jane. He just kept yelling in front of other people, that I needed to get in the car and he was going to take me home. When I wouldn’t listen to him he got more pissed. He either said “god you really are a bitch” or “god you really are a cunt.” I can’t remember which nice word it was, but both were common ones for him to use! He got in the car and drove off. I waited for Elsa, Justin, and their new baby to pick me up. It was the end of winter, so it was still freezing outside! It was better than riding home with that psychopath though.

My girl and I