22-Making sense of the lies

Since starting my healing journey I have reached out to a few people that I thought needed to know some important information. His ex-wife, his ex-girlfriend, and people he used to work for. I have known his ex-wife longer than I have known him. I have known his son his entire life, so I knew most of the stuff he would tell me about his ex-wife was a lie. He did however do things in front of their child that I didn’t think were appropriate. For example, punching the dog, screaming horrible things in front of a child, manipulating a child into believing his mother isn’t a good mom or that he isn’t loved by his mother, making up horrible lies about the mother of your child and spreading it to the community, or hoping she dies from her terminal cancer. I will explain them all in detail, but I will not repeat the lies he said about her. I also reached out to his ex-girlfriend who he had told me horrible things about. She actually got back to me when I reached out to her and explained everything in detail. I will also explain that later on. As for the company he worked for, they literally helped save his life by putting him through rehab. He spread horrible lies about them, some of which I also will not repeat. It was important for me to reach out to these people because the things I knew I felt were very appropriate for them to know. I live in a small town and the lies he was telling about these people were being shared across the community and people actually believed them, so that’s why I chose to share what I did with them.

This picture makes me laugh. This is my best friend that lives in Vegas. She said when i'm sad to look at this picture and think about how were princess's walking through the lights.

Right now in my healing journey I feel happy again. It is December 17, 2018 and this is my 8th week since being free from my narcissist. I have a long road ahead of me, but I will continue to share based on my journey. As of right now, that it the timeline from the beginning of my relationship to where my healing is at now. Now I am going to explain what it like dating a narcissist and some of the personal situations I went through.