Narcissistic Traits 37- Manipulation and Controlling

Dick is the biggest manipulator and controller known to man. He is so good at it that you won’t even know you’re being manipulated. This can also be seen in some of the experiences seen above. For example, using his son to text me or telling me that his son really misses me, so that I would feel bad and come back. He was the greatest at the guilt trip. If I didn’t want to do something he made sure I felt like absolute garbage until I did do it. Every single aspect of my life was controlled by him besides two. He didn’t have control over my finances because I owned my own business and he didn’t have control over my household arrangements because I still live with my parents. He did tell me though that I could sell my business because he could take care of me, but I wouldn’t and he didn’t like that he didn’t have that control. He also asked me to move into his house and I didn’t want to because I knew he wasn’t financially stable or emotionally stable, both of which I wasn’t going to deal with. The rest of my life was controlled by him. He didn’t like when I hung out with anyone besides him, and if I did he would create a big fight. He knew how to say things to make it seem like he wasn’t being controlling, but don’t be fooled. If he will control and manipulate his own son he will control and manipulate anyone.